this is why women choose the bear btw.
many rapists consider themselves good people, many don't think of themselves as rapists, many are in fact vocal and performative in their desire to violently punish rapists. rapists do not identify themselves with "hi I'm a rapist" badges.
how do the rapist men distinguish who is anti-rape? do they have a detector of some sort? do you announce to all the men you meet that you are opposed to rape? is there some kind of dress code?
did all 50 men in that chat consider themselves rapists? was there a vetting process for that?