Cis friends,
Every single one of these questions is profoundly rude, cruel, and woefully misinformed. They’re all based in a set of assumptions about trans women which is fatally flawed at best, and overtly transmisogynistic at worst. They’re gross.
Do not do this. Ever. Not to me, not to anyone.
oh so many (the whys are self-explanatory)
when did you decide to be trans?
have you tried not being trans?
can’t you just be a gay guy?
why can’t you just be normal?
you have to get divorced now right?
but you’re not REALLY a girl right?
~did~you~have~
~~•THE•~~•SURGERY•~~