This is what Ben Shapiro and his ilk are missing. Expanding compassionate self-love endlessly outward is the rational and logical thing to do! It feels the best and produces the best results!
I remain pretty unerringly positive because I’ve experimented with the opposite and it was both sad AND unproductive!
Now at least I’m happy 😅
Plus, yeah, bringing positivity to all of my favourite things to do seems to make them easier and / or more fun, which is a neat side effect!