Choking is so much more dangerous than *most* other aspects of kink.
Sometimes fantasy needs to remain fantasy, & doesn’t always need to be acted out or upon.
*A man who puts his hands around your throat to choke, is significantly more likely to commit violence against or kill you intentionally.
Major study on Risks of choking during sex call to action: (tl dr, don't do it): link.springer.com/article/10.1... They point out that in BDSM circles, "don't do it" has been the standard advice for decades.
link.springer.com
Why Sexual Choking Is Not as Safe as You Think: A Call to Action from Sex Researchers and Kink Educators - Archives of Sexual Behavior
This is a synthesis of the research area and issues involving sexual choking, followed by calls to action based on the synthesis. We describe the health risks associated with sexual choking, which is ...