If your first instinct is to say “not all men!” you need to ask yourself why you are responding to an argument no one is making. People tend to do that when reacting emotionally to something that hurts their feelings.
Not all men. Jesus Christ, don't you think women *know* that? Use your heads instead of getting defensive. Most of you would be terrified of swimming among sharks, even though sharks are stastically far less dangerous to you than men are to women.