Imagine spending multiple times what it'd cost to live in any random car friendly place in the US so you can live in one of the most transit rich, walkable, bikeable parts of the country, then never taking advantage of what you're paying for and complaining about parking instead.
I genuinely do not understand people who want to drive everywhere and park for free at their destination but insist on living in San Francisco, New York, Boston, Philadelphia, and Washington DC.
The other 99.5% of the country has what you want with much lower housing prices. Move there!