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Dani @hellmoder.bsky.social · 25/11/2024

im sad somewhat that my mother wants me to confide in her or anyone else here and i really just can't she seems so alienated from anything that actually concerns me and makes it repeatedly clear she doesn't understand me at all so idk why i should be comfortable with that.

Dani@hellmoder.bsky.social

i think just turning on my vulnerability to anyone whos not just like a, specific type of person seems like something i wouldn't do. ive been thinking over conversations that would happen in therapy and being like this feels stupid or like she'd just be like i don't understand or something

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Yousef @yousef7.bsky.social · 26/11/2024

…happening here), it’s really easy to have this reductive attitude for those kinda people. Which leads me to believe issue isn’t that they don’t get it, it’s that they don’t want to which is far worse (3/3)

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Yousef @yousef7.bsky.social · 26/11/2024

Age gaps where it’s easier to reduce problems to “dem kids amirite?” But can feel really demoralizing to be at the receiving ends of it. Especially when you encounter folks who quite willingly go the even easier route of acting deliberately apathetic (not that I’m saying that’s what’s… (2/3)

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Yousef @yousef7.bsky.social · 26/11/2024

Parental figures past their 40s don’t struggle to “understand” perse, it’s just they see a significantly younger person go through internal struggles and think “been there, done that, you’ll get over it”, it’s a shockingly easy position to sleep into especially in large (1/3)

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Dani @hellmoder.bsky.social · 25/11/2024

problem of my own making, as usual, but that is just how it is. There is probably a precedent of having being made to feel alienated for whatever in this place.

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