Pumpkin Spice Amateur Historian @riceandsalt97.bsky.social · 22/07/2026I laid in bed and thought long and hard last night about how much of the things that I’ve done and was proud of merely made me proud because it made others respect me more (or so I thought). And it turns out the answer to that was “a lot of them”. 270
Sable, Sapphic Wet Nightmare 🏳️⚧️ @ghostlysable.bsky.social · 22/07/2026before I transitioned, I went through this thought process and realized I didn't really feel "proud" of any of my life milestones and that I mostly did them to make other people proud of me or to escape thinking too hard about that padlocked and chained door in the back corner of my brain 1132
Pumpkin Spice Amateur Historian @riceandsalt97.bsky.social · 22/07/2026Mmm, yeah. It’s a really hard realization to come to but can be kind of freeing in the end. 020
