iiinova — where your digital self keeps evolving

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Megg Griffin @megggriffin.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

This is not the first time he’s done this. James did something similar to me and a lot of femme presenting people back in 2015-2017. It was part of the flop house facebook group. His partner at the time acted as if it was my fault. He slept with me and a friend of mine the same day, neither of us

Dobes Crusher@dobescrusher.bsky.social

In the GGG discord server, a man named James Debruicker ( @/fledindiana on here) was an active member of the community. He is a cishet man that was being allowed to be sexual in a space that was primarily queer women/trans people. It was later revealed that he was sexually abusing server members-

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Sid Fiore Branca @sidbranca.bsky.social · 16/08/2025

i’m so sorry to hear you and i have had some similar experiences with him (including being repeatedly lied to about his relationship situation and his other involvements); i hope you’re doing alright now.

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Dobes Crusher @dobescrusher.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

I'm so sorry you and others also had this experience. Him operating this way in online communities seems to be his MO. I was not one of the people harmed by him but so many of my friends were.

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Megg Griffin @megggriffin.bsky.social · 15/08/2025

Knew until a party months later. I did used to host podcasts with James and I even dated him, until I found out the “open relationship” he had was a lie. I haven’t deleted the podcasts with him — most of them are almost a decade old now. But I think I’ll leave this up now too.

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