Had to block a former mutual who was arguing that lesbians disgust at the idea of personally having sex with a man was like straight men being grossed out by the concept of gay sex. The reason we're disgusted at the idea is it would only happen if the man raped us, cause we dont want them.
The reason most lesbians are so fucking cagey and angry about this topic is because all of society is gagging to tell us how much more enlightened and moral and inclusive it is for us to include men in our sexuality, and refuses to take no for an answer.
So take the hint.