Parents make a calculated decision on what they think will be best for the children and often enough it was the wrong calculation. You shouldn’t feel shitty about it.
The opposite is paralysis and sticking something out because even just questioning your decision is an uncomfortable thought
@rincewind.runand so there’s a part of us that’s sitting there going, well, maybe we should have made a different decision when we were first figuring out schools years ago
if we go back we’d probably have made the same one but if we knew what we know now we wouldn’t have
it’s a shitty feeling